“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.” -C.S.Lewis, The Four Loves
For me, a dream afternoon might be spent sipping a cappuccino in a French cafe or strolling the side-streets of Paris.
And while that may or may not be something I'm able to experience some day, I take comfort in this: whatever tantalizing joy or thrill is gained from such experiences, I need not feel like I'm missing out if such a luxury is never afforded me again. Why? Because these thrills are just glimpses, just a foretaste of what awaits me in Eternity. Would something delightful exist on earth that cannot be surpassed in Heaven? I think not. His kingdom is better than the best dream day on earth.
GIVEAWAY! "Choosing Light"
Sally shares this prayer in the beginning of Own Your Life, a prayer she declared before the Lord over 20 years ago. It is the inspiration for this painting:
“Lord, I will choose to find light in the darkness. I have no guarantee about how any of this will turn out, but I am planting flags of faith. No matter what happens, I will be as obedient as I can to bring joy into this place, to create beauty in the wilderness, to exercise generous love, and the persevere in patience. I will choose to believe that wherever you are my faithful companion is the place where your blessing will be upon me.” (p. 9, Own Your Life)
Through the mingling of dark and light, this piece draws on the essence of Redemption, the captivating story of God inviting us out the the darkness and into Light.
As we cling to that Light, we aren’t spared from the storms of this world, yet by His grace, we persevere with full confidence in our victorious Redeemer, choosing light.
And grab a copy of this book- her writing has shaped my parenting tremendously.
Today I'm grateful to give you a few words from my wonderful husband on his introduction to Love146. This was originally written for another publication but I appreciated the realistic experience offered so wanted to post a portion of it here. The plight of those forced into slave labor worldwide compelled him to go back and get his law degree four years ago. The relationship that had been formed with Love146 in New York City back in 2009 carried over and we were so grateful to join their team in 2013, bringing us to Texas.
In the spring of 2009, I embarked on a Southeast Asian Partner Trip with Love146 to investigate the organization’s programs and partnerships. At that time, I served as a pastor at a church in New York City. We wanted to get a closer look at exactly what kind of work Love146 was doing over there.
After seven days of international flights, walking through red light districts, schlepping through slums, visiting partner programs, and attending coalition meetings, I honestly wasn’t that impressed. I was just overwhelmed and tired. And, quite frankly, sad.
For a full seven days I was inundated with rampant exploitation, complex cultures, paralyzing poverty, and systemic corruption. I’m not a particularly optimistic person by nature, so perhaps it’s not surprising that this tour de depravity left me feeling on the downside of depressed and irritatingly listless.
But on the last day of the trip we visited Manila to celebrate the grand opening of Love146’s new flagship aftercare facility, the “Round Home.” Sitting there in a folding chair on the perfectly manicured front lawn, everything changed.
Against the dour backdrop of brokenness sat a beautifully colorful house. Well, not just a house, actually – a home. Children ran around freely. They played, laughed, and sang. They were animated by things I hadn’t felt or seen in well over a week: healing, restoration, hope, joy – and even worship. It was actually their worship that surprised me the most.
Toward the end of the opening ceremony, Dr. Gundelina Velasco - with her uniquely quiet and unassuming gravitas – announced that the girls had prepared a dance. She told us they’d chosen an accompanying song and felt particularly excited to share it with the guests. I don’t remember the details exactly, but the music was some Christian worship song popular at the time. The dance was perfectly childlike – an elegant amalgamation of clumsiness, grace, silliness, and serenity.
I was visiting as a pastor and supporter of this work, but hadn’t felt able or impelled to worship since leaving New York. But there they were – children who had experienced the devastating realities that I had just seen and heard about – worshipping. Given the spiritual coldness I felt during that week prior, their exhibition elicited in my heart a simultaneous sense of deep conviction and remarkable freedom.
That night, I came to appreciate the thoughtfulness, sensitivity, and consideration that went into Love146 Survivor Care. Providing space and care capable of helping children transition from acute trauma to active celebration does not happen casually or haphazardly.
Love146 now serves in the areas of advocacy, volunteer mobilization, and direct service provision. And while the organization executes none of those roles perfectly, it remains fiercely committed to undertaking each of them with the utmost thoughtfulness, foresight, and consideration. There exists an enduring commitment not just to good intentions, but also to significant outcomes. That reality defines the broad culture of our organization as much as it did the care of those children.
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